Wedding budget
Wedding costs before and after the day: 6 couples forget
Most wedding budgets stop at the day itself. Six costs sit just outside it: some before the day, some after. Here is the list, and when to ask about each.
The six costs
We don't quote typical dollar figures, because they depend on your city, your venue and your guest list. For each cost, get the actual number or a firm yes or no, and put it in your budget.
- Marriage license fee. Fees and paperwork rules differ by place. Ask the office that issues the license what it costs and how long it stays valid.
- Rehearsal dinner. Sometimes it isn't clear whose cost it is, so nobody budgets for it. Decide who is hosting and who is invited, and give it its own line.
- Hotel room-block rules. Ask: “If rooms in the block go unbooked, are they charged to us?” Get the cut-off date in writing.
- Transportation or parking for guests. Shuttles, a parking attendant or parking fees at the venue. Ask the venue what it provides and what it charges for.
- Wedding insurance. Ask the venue whether it is required, then compare what a policy actually covers before you decide. We can't advise which policy to buy.
- After the day. Dress cleaning, bouquet preservation, prints and albums. These arrive after the party, when the budget feels finished.
When to ask
- The week you book the venue: room-block terms, parking, and whether insurance is required.
- Once the guest list is stable: shuttles or parking, and who the rehearsal dinner includes.
- Before the day: book cleaning and preservation, so these costs are known and not a surprise afterwards.
Where to put them
Give each its own line, or put the total in your buffer line. A budget with no line for them has no room for them.
The rest of the list
These six are the last section of our list of 40 costs couples forget. The other sections cover fees inside quotes, food and drink, rentals and decor, attire and beauty, paper and post, and tips and gifts. You can read the whole list on one page, free.
Read all 40 hidden wedding costs
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